Sunday, December 31, 2006




Here's wrapping up 2006, it was a great year I'll never forget! My first born was born this year, and I will treasure in my heart all the firsts. He's getting so big now, but here's a picture of the beginning and end of 2006 (for him anyway). First inside me (1/8/2006),
and second on his birth day getting his first bath (March 2006).








Yes we were playing in his bassinet today. He loves the mobile now. It was so high when he was small, now it seems so low.











May 2007 be just as good a year!

Saturday, December 30, 2006

Friday, December 29, 2006

Frostbite

Is my child going to get frost bite from a popsicle; he screams if i try to take it from him?

Rice...Yuck

Today we offered Tommy some rice, and he pulled it out of his mouth like we pull all the leaves out of his mouth that he tries to eat. You know the one finger mouth sweep you learn as first aid to check for the item someone is choking on. It was quite entertaining.

He's saying several words now. Today he looked at Hunter on the bed (while he was standing next to the bed) and said plain as day "Off". Hunter didn't listen, but I had to laugh.

I swear he calls me Wewea (Lydia) instead of mommy, but sometimes it's wawa for mama. Other words in his vocabulary include DaDa, Daddy, Adie(Sadie), Unta(Hunter), and Hi.

Saturday, December 23, 2006

Scrap Blog

Here's my new blog....YEH! And here's some recent pictures of Tommy. Stay tuned for what's happening in our family!

Friday, November 24, 2006

Thanksgiving 2006

Mother of a "Special" Child

When I was young, I'd often say,
I'd like to be a mom someday
While playing with my baby doll,
I thought that job's not hard at all

I'd have a baby, maybe two,
a girl in pink...a boy in blue
Well I grew up and sure enough,
I'm now a mom and gosh it's tough

The baby that was sent to me,
was born with disabilities
At first I'm frightened through and through,
there's much to learn to care for you

This wasn't in my plans at all,
when I was young and played with dolls
Your mind and body were so weak,
you might not ever walk or speak

So much special care required,
I'm often scared and often tired
As months and years go slowly by,
I smile a lot but sometimes cry

To watch you grow and not complain,
though you endure your share of pain
Oh, how I'd hold you and I'd pray,
that you'd be healed and whole someday

But I knew that was not to be,
not physically or mentally
And so I taught you best I could,
your progress wasn't very good

But then one day I realized,
as I gazed into your loving eyes
That I had learned so much from you,
determination...courage too

A love so unconditional,
it floods my soul and always will
I'm proud to say I gave you birth,
for you're an angel here on earth.

God Choose a mother for a "Special" child

Most women becaome mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressure and a couple by habit.

This year nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handicapped children. Did you ever wonder how mothers of handicapped children are chosen?

Somehow I visualize God hovering over earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As He observes, He instructs His angels to make notes in a giant ledger.

"Armstrong, Beth; son. Patron saint...give her Gerard. He's used to profanity."

"Forrest, Marjotie; daughter. Patron saint, Cecelia."

"Rutledge, Carrie; twins. Patron saint, Matthew."

Finally He passes a name to an angel and smiles, "Give her a handicapped child."

The angel is curious. "Why this one God? She's so happy."

"Exactly," smiles God, "Could I give a handicapped child to a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."

"But she has patience?" asked the angel.

"I don't want her to have to much patience or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wears off, she'll handle it."

"I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independence that is so rare and so necessary in a mother. You see, the child I'm going to give her has his own world. She has to make her live in her world and that's not going to be easy."

"But, Lord, I don't think she even believes in you." God smiles, "No matter, I can fix that. This one is perfect - she has just enough selfishness." The angel gasps - "selfishness? is that a virtue?"

God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a 'spoken word'. She will never consider a 'step' ordinary. When her child says 'Momma' for the first time, she will be present at a miracle, and will know it!"

"I will permit her to see clearly the things I see...ignorance, cruelty, prejudice....and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life, because she is doing My work as surely as if she is here by My side".

And what about her Patron saint? asked the angel, his pen poised in mid-air.

God smiles, "A mirror will suffice."